ookie, so i was #listening to the radio a few days ago, and a topic came up...that is so 'typical'- yet i don't understand why...
apparently all these women who are dating men for years think they should pressure the guy to getting married after a certain amount of time 'being together'.....my question to you ladies is 'why?'...why not just be happy and 'enjoy the ride' <(bf's line ^_^)
why is marriage so important???
why give a man an ultimatum??? if he wants to be with you, just be happy...if you want a marriage proposal...why not do it your damn self?
if you think you're going to get anywhere by pressuring them...i'll be the first one to laugh in your face...first of all, everyone knows that you cannot make anyone do something they're not ready to do, especially a man...chances are...if he does 'propose'...you prolly won't get married anytime soon, or if you do...it won't work out-because he's just not ready...or he'll just leave, and you're be right at square one all over again ~_~
whatever happened to taking things slow nowadays?....why are we all in such a rush?, i understand that some ladies out there have kids by the man their with...it still doesn't mean 'hurry up and tie the knot'...i'm not a believer of 'if you get a girl pregnant, marry her because it's the right thing to do' (how does that fix anything?...here's your answer________it doesn't! it never has, and never will...
and ladies...stop being so damn demanding...maybe that's why he doesn't want to marry you...stop being a bitch and needing to have everything your way....the world does not revolve around you...and if you think he can't find/do better than you...i guarantee you that he will...and make it his mission to prove that to you!
so there you have it....my views^^
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